Did backcombing your hair work for you?
Being glam is all about personal preference, You could spend all day coping your favourite bands or artists, Just do what you feel comfortable with.
I would say your look is more goth than glam??? but I do tend to use 80s Cinderella as a glam look reference and that is quite extreme.
I based my look from 80s Skid Row, black 501 or leather jeans, copper bullet belt, silver bangles, black leather jacket/cowboy boots and maybe a purple lace shirt. I had a pair of skin tight black jeans that had been tied in knots and had white paint splattered on them. I used to buy my stuff mail order or from carnaby street in London.
I remember buying double size cans of hair spray and even had my hair tight permed as is was nearly down to my arse!!!
Plus I think that girls can get away with much more...
I'm boring now a days, just jeans and shirt man.